My husband doesn't want to teach our daughter about Santa Claus. I disagree on a certain level, because I think Santa Claus could be a good tool for teaching her about sharing, and giving, without expecting thanks in return. Think about it. Who writes Santa Claus a thank you note?
I think that the whole gift giving thing should switch to Thanksgiving. Let Christmas be the time to celebrate life in winter. But if we could turn Thanksgiving into a time of gift-giving to demonstrate our appreciation of having those around us in our lives, I think that would be more fitting. It'll never happen, I know, but it would fit better then Christmas (which is already an amalgamation of celebrations, what with the triumverate of monotheisms celebrating something that month). It would open it up to more people, and avoid some degree of scandal (no more desecrating a religious celebration with money). I don't know why I'm giving gifts to people. Because it's Christmas. And? So?
Gifts given and received. I read about a gift delivered in a very sad package. It reminded me of being careful what I wish for, because the means of delivery may not be what you want.
